I am feeling a bit guilty. I decided to de-friend someone from my limited friends on facebook because I am being friended by my relatives, and I didn't want them to know about the interests of mine through the interests of this friend on facebook. Is this clear????

Anyway I messaged the facebook friend this information and I am hoping for understanding, as I feel so conflicted :(

I am wondering about the whole 'de-friending' process here on livejournal. I have de-friended one person in the past, with out letting that person know. I am considering de-friending more, as I have not heard from some people in almost a year and other people I am not sure if we have any common ground. I guess I like closure! And if things are not working, end it and move on.

I am at work, killing a bit of time before a group I am co-therapist of starts, reflecting back on my week. Monday night's dinner with G went really well, btw :) We talked for 2 hours and had a very nice meal. We talked about getting together again for dinner, but no firm plans were made. I am leaving things in his court for the time being, appreciating the experience.

Tomorrow night my fencing class begins!! En garde!! Ok, I am a wee bit excited about that :) And tomorrow is my Friday off, life is sweet!

Some good news is that I can 'see'!! Last week I went to my eye doctor for an eye exam. I told her I have been very frustrated with my progressive lenses, telling her I could not see properly with the distance or the reading part. Also with my regular vision contact lenses I had to use reading glasses - it's been a mess. So last week she gave me contact lenses for MONOvision, where I would see distances with right eye, reading with left eye. Well, I HATED them!! I again couldn't see any thing well! Follow up appointment was this morning where I shared my woe with her. She gave me a pair of bifocal lenses to try and I LOVE THEM!!! I can see EVERYTHING well :) She said she would call me in a week to see if they are working. I knew after 10 minutes they were right for me :) What a relief :)

I am feeling angry, mostly. *sigh* ....
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So who knew that "facebook" was a dating service??? I set up my profile about 3 months ago because my daughters have profiles. They are my ONLY friends there, by choice. Two of my co-workers have profiles but we are not 'friends'.

Anyway, my 'boytoy', who I (very) briefly mentioned in a previous post, found me on facebook and now, another man has contacted me. He and I met for coffee on Saturday and he is taking me out for dinner tonight. He is into me more than I am into him. Also, he is 10 years younger. He has a very heavy accent that is a bit of a challenge for me. He knows I am taking things VERY slow, as I don't know if there is going to be anything between us.

I find it all very interesting!